Cue panic.
So here is what you do - breathe deeply and buy yourself a copy of Baby 411. This book is seriously most of what you need to get through the first year. I read this book in my last month of pregnancy and have been using it as a reference continuously with both children ever since. It has answers to all of the questions that will be discussed ad nauseum in your new mom's group (you should find yourself a new mom's group). Questions like:
- "What's that on my child's head?" (answer: cradle cap).
- "What's that burning sensation in my breast when I nurse?" (answer: thrush).
- "When can I give my baby his first bath?" (answer: when the umbilical cord falls off).
- "When will I be able to sleep in again?" (ahaha... trick question)
Furthermore, the sleep chapter has an incredibly concise description of the current science on baby sleep as well as full reviews of the most popular sleep books. This chapter was so comprehensive (yet short and easy to read) that we were able to get our daughter through all her sleep hiccups without having to do further reading (score!).
The information presented in this book is clear, the answers easy to understand, and further books are recommended for topics that need more in depth coverage than what they can facilitate. If you're only going to read one book about babies (and you should read at least one), this is the one.